Part of my Kundalini and Relationships guide · Teachings by Guru Sanju
What is communication? How do you communicate well so that your message is delivered completely?
Communication is the art of expressing yourself in the way you want to convey your message. A good communication demands from you both attention and expression in such a way that the receiver not only hears it but also understands the meaning fully.
When you are communicating with someone, you must ensure that the person is attending to you in the present. If that person is unavailable or distracted, your communication becomes a failed one. Whatever you intend to convey will not be received in the right context, and as a result the purpose of communication will remain unfulfilled.
A good communication saves your time, money, and energy invested in that communication. You, as an energy being, are living life moment to moment. Each moment is precious. If you need to repeat the same communication again and again, then the time, money, and energy invested is lost.
Communication as Life Force
In life, you are a life force thriving with a high volume of energy. This energy gets expressed through your body and organ systems, making expression possible.
If you want to deal with the world, you need to express every moment what you need. Without communication, you cannot transact with people, with society, or with other human beings. From the moment you wake up in the morning till the moment you sleep at night, you are dealing with the world on different transactional levels. No transaction is complete without communication.
Communication happens only when both parties are fully available in the present moment. Lack of communication creates problems in your personal as well as professional life. If your message is not conveyed well, you will be misunderstood by others, and no amount of effort afterward can repair the damages caused.
The Cost of Miscommunication
For example, if you want medicine during ill health, you might order online. If you are unable to clearly communicate your residential address or the urgency of the delivery, the medicine may arrive after five or six days, not when you needed it most. In such a case, your communication has failed you.
Only human beings on this planet Earth can express through language, voice, and body language what they want from others. But if you are not able to communicate well, you fail as a human being in that particular moment.
Similarly, in personal relationships, if you are not able to express your love, care, or even anger toward your loved ones, they will not understand you. Miscommunication creates conflict in families, friendships, and close bonds.
In the workplace, if you are not able to communicate well, you cannot raise your productivity. You cannot become an experienced employee of the organization where you are working. And if you are a businessman or entrepreneur, your communication must be perfect. For you, time, money, and energy are your greatest assets. Without effective communication, these assets are wasted.
Communication as an Asset
With great communication, you can work undisturbed and undistracted. You will take out specific time to communicate with people when required, and you will ensure that at other times no one is disturbing you.
Good communication brings a sense of completion. Energetically, you will feel the shift. For example, if you need grocery supplies at home and you communicate your requirements clearly—whether through an online order or assigning the work to someone—the grocery will reach on time. You will then be free from the blocked energy that remains until the work is completed.
But if you do not communicate well, the grocery will not arrive on time, you will not eat on time, and you will not feel energetic enough for your work. A single failure in communication cascades into failures in multiple areas of life.
Blocked Throat, Blocked Life
If your throat energy is blocked, you will not be able to speak well or convey your message to others. This blockage will directly affect your progress in life.
Human evolution, from the beginning till now, has largely been the evolution of communication. Human beings are great communicators. All great leaders and orators throughout history have possessed extraordinary communication skills. They have been able to convey their message in such a way that it reached people exactly as they intended.
The truth is, if you want to progress and evolve in life, you need people in every aspect. And to receive the benefits of living in this world, you must communicate well. Communication is not just a professional skill. It is the very foundation of your life on this planet.
Time, Money, and Energy
When communication is faulty, you are forced to repeat yourself. This wastes three valuable resources: time, money, and energy.
For example, imagine you are giving instructions at your workplace. If you fail to be clear and precise, the person may misunderstand. You will then need to correct the mistake, repeat instructions, and redo work. The cost is not only financial but energetic. Your energy remains tied up in something incomplete.
But when you communicate effectively, work flows smoothly. The other person understands, acts correctly, and your energy is released. You feel free, lighter, and more available for the next task.
Communication in Personal Life
In family life, communication determines harmony. If you express your feelings—whether love, gratitude, or even disappointment—clearly and with presence, your loved ones understand you. Misunderstandings dissolve.
But if you suppress communication, block it, or fail to express yourself, relationships weaken. Conflicts arise not because of lack of love, but because of lack of communication.
Good communication is therefore an act of love itself. It shows the other person that you care enough to express clearly and listen attentively.
Communication in Professional Life
In professional life, your growth is directly linked to your communication skills.
If you are an employee, good communication makes you productive, trustworthy, and respected. You can collaborate well with colleagues, convey ideas to managers, and deliver results to clients.
If you are a businessman or entrepreneur, communication becomes your greatest tool. Every deal, every negotiation, every transaction depends on how well you express the value you bring. Poor communication leads to losses. Great communication leads to profits.
Time, money, and energy—your greatest assets—are safeguarded and multiplied through effective communication.
The Energetics of Communication
Communication is not only words. It is energy.
When you communicate well, you feel a sense of completion. Your energy shifts. Your body feels lighter. Your mind is free. But when communication is incomplete, your energy remains blocked. You carry the weight of unfinished business until it is expressed.
This is why communication must be practiced with awareness. It is not enough to merely speak. The receiver must understand. Both must be present. Only then does communication happen.
Human Evolution Through Communication
From the earliest days of human history, communication has been the foundation of survival and growth. Tribes coordinated hunts, built communities, and created civilizations through communication.
Language evolved as a tool for expressing needs, emotions, and knowledge. Leaders emerged as great communicators, capable of inspiring, guiding, and uniting people.
Even today, the power of communication separates great leaders from ordinary ones. It separates successful organizations from failing ones. And it separates harmonious families from broken ones.
Practicing Effective Communication
How can you improve your communication?
Improvement in communication is an individual affair. Each person communicates differently, shaped by personality, conditioning, and energetic blocks.
Your inner GPS reveals how you communicate. By diagnosing the level at which you need improvement, you can work on it consciously. With guidance, you can receive specific action plans to practice in daily life.
Practice involves expressing clearly, listening fully, and ensuring the receiver is present. It also involves comparing the results of good communication with the failures of past miscommunication. Over time, you will experience the transformation.
The Role of Presence
The first condition of communication is presence. Both parties must be here, now. If you are distracted, or the other person is distracted, the communication is lost.
Presence requires attention. When you are speaking, give your full attention to what you are expressing. When you are listening, give your full attention to what the other person is saying.
This conscious presence makes communication effective, meaningful, and complete.
A Call to Conscious Expression
Communication is not optional. It is the very basis of living as a human being.
From ordering medicine to running a business, from expressing love to leading nations, communication is at the center. Miscommunication leads to losses, conflicts, and suffering. Effective communication leads to harmony, productivity, and growth.
To evolve in life, you must evolve as a communicator. The art of expression is not only about words. It is about energy, presence, and clarity.
When you master communication, you master the way you transact with the world. You protect your time, money, and energy. You create harmony in relationships. You succeed in your profession. And most importantly, you live as a complete human being, free of blockages, able to express fully and authentically in every moment.
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