Your Twin Flame in the Kundalini Awakening journey is not your extra-marital affair. Twin Flame—that you have misunderstood as your extra-marital affair—is totally wrong. I have created a detailed discourse on Twin Flame and Kundalini Awakening, and if you have any confusion regarding the concept or what it is, then you go and read the discourse and have the clarity.
But let me tell you, most of you—especially females—those who come to me, they have extra-marital affairs with some partner, and they name it as a spiritual awakening and term the relationship as Twin Flame.
If you are having a relationship with your Twin Flame, then let me tell you: your destiny will be entangled around that person. You cannot live with your husband and have the same relationship with that person for your pleasures.
In Twin Flame, when it comes to your life, your life will be transformed. Twin Flame is about the awakening of the Shiva and Shakti energy in both of you, and you come together like attraction of the Universe—and that stays together. Twin Flames, once they are united, don’t leave.
This way, let me give you the clarity: that if—if you are having the energy of lust, if your sexual desires are not fulfilled and you are having a relationship outside your marriage with any man, then complete that desire by fulfilling all your lust and everything that is associated with that man.
Don’t name it as Twin Flame, because when you name it as Twin Flame, you are insulting the Divine Kundalini Energy in you. And when you do that, you create karmas. If you feel that Kundalini is deaf energy, it doesn’t know what you are doing outside, then it is not the case. Kundalini is a super-active Divine Life Force in you that listens and that keeps the record and track of all the karmas that you do.
Most of you don’t know how karmas are created. Karmas are created as you make a mistake, and that mistake could be in thoughts, could be in actions, could be in vibration form—and all the track records of all your mistakes are kept by Kundalini Energy herself. She is the soul. She is the spirit. She is the recorder of all the mistakes and all the good deeds that you do.
Most of the females come to me to know from me—to have a diagnosis from me—about their extra-marital affairs. How can I tell them about their extra-marital affairs? It is the choice. It is your choice.
I diagnose Kundalini, and I diagnose the actual Twin Flame that is real, that has the Shiva element, that is for evolutionary purpose, that is for bigger purpose. And I guide my students who have travelled that path of evolution through proper diagnosis of their Twin Flames. And they are living together as Twin Flames because of my diagnosis and my transformation process.
Twin Flames are extremely rare, and it will not happen to you if you are a person of the Matrix and you are naming it as extra-marital affair.
You want to run away with this person? Then run away. Leave your husband. Why are you fooling both the men? On one hand, you are fooling your husband by staying with your husband who is providing for you, and on the other hand, you are fooling this man who is in the hope that one day you will get married to this man, you will give divorce to your husband.
But no. You are keeping the fruits in both the hands. You don’t want to leave your husband because your husband gives you security, gives you protection, gives you status in the society. And you want to be named as a person who is well-cultured, is of good character.
On the other hand, you are dating this man outside of the marriage, who may be a man who is going through some suffering, maybe. And if not, if that man is fooling his wife’s, then both of you are culprits in destroying lives of other people who are trusting you.
If your husband trusts you—and this applies to women just as it does to men—don’t label any man or any of your girlfriends as your Twin Flame. You don’t truly understand what a Twin Flame is.
It is for a Divine purpose—a higher purpose—not to get married, not to build the Matrix or start a family. Twin Flames are extremely rare, and they are brought together by the Universe to first transform their own lives, and then to transform or heal the lives of many others through their union.
It is for Divine purpose. They are like Avatars. They are like embodied Universal Consciousness—Shiva and Shakti energy that flows in them.
One week ago, a female who is in her 50s—she came to me, who is “happily married” in her language. Her husband is loving. She has a good house. She has all the benefits of life that a man gives. She has two sons and one daughter—all married and settled in their life.
And now she is searching for her Twin Flame in her friend who was her college friend once. And that man is settled in his life. He has his wife. He has his children. And he is settled in his life.
Now, this man and woman—they are making extra-marital affair, and they want to name it as Twin Flame and want to give the name of the Divine. It is not a Divine act. It is from your lust. First fulfill your lower energies of lust and greed and whatever you want to fulfill through this relationship. Why are you fooling?
Get out of the marriage.
Few of the Gods—Kundalini and spirituality—have become like your shield to tell lies, to fool others, and to fool yourself. Everything is recorded in Kundalini’s record book.
She is the inner CA within you, keeping track of everything you do—every small lie you tell yourself, every surrender to lower desires, every moment of losing control over your wants.
You want to caress your ego at this age when you are suffering from Attention Deficit Syndrome. You are not getting attention—that is why you are wanting the attention of the other man. Your husband does not find interest in you because you are no more sexually attractive to your man.
You have lost all your ojas in giving birth to child and you have never maintained yourself like a healthy young woman. You are fat. You are unhealthy. You are not sexy. You are not curvy. You have lost all your ojas.
And so is your man. He has lost all his ojas in the Matrix—maintaining you and your children and working day and night, having all the diseases—heart diseases, kidney diseases, physical diseases, brain diseases—and both of you are unattractive to each other.
And that is why you have created an extra-marital affair where your ego is satisfied that, at this age, I am getting a man to love me in the name of love and romantic relationship.
You are actually having an extra-marital affair and want to give that turn and twist of the Divine Kundalini and Shiva energy—this is your Twin Flame.
So stop fooling yourself. And stop fooling the Guru.
Guru knows in and out of you. I have the diagnosis power. I have the clairvoyant power and many multiple powers to know who is a Twin Flame and who is here to transform lives of those who are real Twin Flames.
You don’t have suffering. You don’t have any real suffering. You just need attention. Sometimes, you crave the attention—and that is why you contact the Guru as well. You are lost.
When we ask about your suffering, you say that you are happy in life. If you were truly happy, it would not have led to this relationship—your extra-marital affair.
If you have the guts, then run away with this man and live your life happily ever after. Have the courage to be with your so-called love.
When Twin Flames come together, they take the risk of venturing into the unknown. They risk everything just to be with each other. They fight against the world for their union. They fight against the Matrix, accepting every challenge that life throws in their path.
No one stands with Twin Flames when they unite. Society, the world, and the Matrix ostracize them. They face the harshest trials of life. Not even their parents or family members support them. In fact, they are hated—despised—by everyone around them.
Have you gone through this kind of suffering? No.
You are comfortably sitting in your home. Your life is “settled.” And in the comfort of that settlement, you create an imaginary reality where a man outside your marriage is in love with you—where you justify a romantic relationship with someone else as something “spiritual.”
Let me tell you the truth.
What you actually need is mental treatment.
You are suffering from Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD).
What you lack is attention control. Once you begin working on your attention, everything in your life will start to shift.
Once you begin following your ikigai—your inner calling, your passion—you will no longer feel the need for an extra-marital affair to feed your ego.
At the age of 45, 50, or even older, you begin suffering from ASB—Attention Seeking Behavior. And to satisfy this behavior, you’re active on every dating app, every social media platform—any space where you can collect attention from men.
And from this crowd, one of them becomes your current extra-marital affair.
And once you dump that man, there’s another one already waiting in the queue.
This is your reality.
This is the reality check of your current status.
And still, you keep all your options open.
None of these men are your Twin Flame.
They are simply boyfriends—men waiting to spend time with you, and to exchange whatever you both are looking for in that moment.
Stop fooling the Kundalini within you.
Kundalini—the spirit, the soul—will punish you for all your lies and unconscious actions. And yes, you will suffer. Greatly.
Your Twin Flame will not be someone trapped in the Matrix. He—or she—will be someone who has left the Matrix. And you, too, must leave the Matrix to recognize them.
Alright. Let this be your final clarity:
Do not bring your extra-marital affairs to the Guru, disguised as a “Twin Flame” connection.
I have no time for your fantasies.
Go.
Get a good night’s sleep…
With your extra-marital affair.
