Has Your Sex Drive Increased or Decreased?
After Kundalini awakening, your sex drive may move in completely different directions. You may feel more sexual and more driven toward sex, or you may suddenly have little or no desire for sex. These are different conditions and need to be understood differently.
This is a general understanding, not personalized advice. For personal diagnosis, I conduct one-to-one Kundalini consultations. I also conduct physical projects in large natural energy vortexes and wilderness, where I work with Kundalini through energy transmission and different forms of energy work.
Three Different States of Sexual Energy
Think of three different stages of a coffee fruit. One represents a healthy state in which you feel normal, healthy, and sexually connected with your partner. The second represents a warning state in which your libido has reduced and you no longer feel like having sex. The third represents a state in which your sexual drive has increased significantly beyond what was normal for you before Kundalini awakening.
These are three completely different conditions. In the healthy state, you have more Ojas, the protective layer around your body that also supports libido and depends upon how healthy a life you are living. Loss of libido, however, is a red flag that needs investigation.
When Your Libido Suddenly Decreases
If you no longer feel like having sex after Kundalini awakening, do not immediately conclude that Kundalini is responsible. There could be hormonal changes, neurological issues, contraction in the pelvic region, problems involving the genitals or reproductive organs, or conditions involving your brain, mental health, or emotional health.
Get yourself examined through medical practitioners and understand why your sexual desire has reduced. You first need to know what that red flag represents before approaching the condition purely from the Kundalini perspective.
When Your Sexual Drive Becomes Extremely Strong
The third condition is completely different. If you suddenly feel much more sexual than before, Kundalini may be clearing lust energies held within your lower body. She wants you to complete the energy of lust that has remained stuck within your energy body.
Until that energy reaches completion, it can create tremendous noise within you. That noise can move into your head, creating obsessive thoughts and the continual feeling that you need to complete your sexual activity. Sometimes the arousal may become so intense that you may even feel driven toward multiple partners and still find that the energy remains incomplete.
Completion Is More Important Than Frequency
The sexual desire needs to be completed in a way that does not leave the experience unfinished. This means reaching the complete stage of orgasm.
Think of a flower. First the bud develops, then flowering happens, and eventually that stage reaches completion. Sexual orgasm also needs to arise from deep within through complete presence in the act.
You need to be present while having sex and actually experience the pleasure with your partner. Both partners should experience the pleasure of the sexual and orgasmic process. If you are physically involved but mentally absent, you may not feel fully involved in the experience and the process can remain incomplete.
Sex Is an Activity of the Sexual Chakra
If you continually treat sex as a secondary activity in your life, understand that sex is a primary activity of real life when sexual energy itself is demanding completion. Sex is an activity of the sexual chakra within the Kundalini process.
When Kundalini produces increased arousal, there may be blockages in the lower chakras, particularly the sexual chakra and root chakra, that she wants to clear. Working toward the clearance of these blockages helps you understand the sexual energy instead of allowing it to continually move into your head.
Thinking about sex will not make you free from sex. Reading endless texts and information about sex will not resolve a sexual problem. Sexual problems have to be addressed practically, including understanding how to engage in sex in the right way.
Rule Out Addiction and Health Problems
Before interpreting increased or decreased sexual desire as Kundalini, make sure that addiction, neurological conditions, hormonal disturbances, or other health problems are not responsible. Get yourself medically diagnosed so that these possibilities can be ruled out.
You also need to distinguish an actual sexual drive from obsessive thinking or hallucination. Not everything occurring after Kundalini awakening is caused by Kundalini.
Pornography Can Affect Your Sexual Experience
If you are consuming too much pornography or have become addicted to pornography, that can also adversely affect your sexual experience. Your brain understands the physical presence of another human being differently from pornography.
When you engage in real sexual activity with a real partner in real time and remain fully present to the pleasures involved, the experience works directly through the body. This complete experience releases energy from the contracted nervous system and contracted energy body and leads toward the orgasmic experience.
But if alcohol addiction, pornography, neurological issues, hormonal problems, or other health conditions are influencing you, these factors first need to be understood. This applies whether you have lost your sexual desire or have become excessively excited about sex.
Your Receptivity and Readiness Matter
The Kundalini guidance process depends upon your receptivity and readiness. It depends upon how ready you are to engage in actual sexual activity instead of abusing your existence through pornography or other addictions.
This understanding may sound very pragmatic because it is not a mainstream teaching. I do not work on fake things or theory alone. I work on the practical problems of life.
Work on the Root Cause
If your problem concerns food, clothing, and shelter, you have to address those realities and create protection and safety within the root chakra through food, clothing, and shelter. In the same way, if your sexual desire has changed after Kundalini awakening, you have to work on the root cause behind that change.
If intense sexual desire is the issue, having sex is primary to becoming free from that energy. But becoming free requires working on yourself in multiple dimensions:
- Work on your physical body.
- Work on your emotional body.
- Work on your energy body.
- Understand the health factors influencing your libido.
- Understand the blockages within your lower chakras.
- Become fully present to sexual activity with your partner.
Prepare Your Body Before Working With Sexual Energy
If you want to have sex with your partner but are not yet fully healthy or prepared, you can first work through my physical projects. There you can work on the physical and energetic aspects of Kundalini, clear your karmas and blockages in the body, and work toward becoming healthy.
Once your body and energy are ready, you can work with sexual activity with your partner and become free from the issues surrounding this energy.
Find the Real Reason Your Sex Drive Has Changed
If you want personal clarity about your condition, you can get yourself diagnosed through a Kundalini consultation session. The important thing is to identify what is actually happening instead of assuming that every change in your sexual drive has been created by Kundalini.
Not everything that happens to you is due to Kundalini. Many other factors can be responsible. First find out what your factor is, get yourself properly checked, and then work on the actual cause.