The Biggest Mistakes of Your Life

Part of my Life After Kundalini Awakening guide · Teachings by Guru Sanju

The Illusion of Guidance

You keep following the guidance of those who themselves have never lived the best life. Look deeply at your parents and elders. Have they lived their highest potential? The answer, most of the time, is no. They are unhealthy, worried, unhappy, unconscious, and unlucky — always in search of something they never find, even while accumulating all possible material possessions.

The same pattern continues in the rest of the world. And unknowingly, you become another clone in that herd of donkeys — another unconscious being following the same patterns. You are not a horse. You are not a lion. You are not an eagle. You are not a phoenix. Day in and day out, you follow the same societal instructions, making the same mistakes.

The first mistake is to follow others. From there begins the chain of all mistakes that will shape your life into misery and bondage.

The Trap of Marriage

The next biggest mistake you make is getting married — or even thinking about it — without realizing the energetic cost it carries. You enter into marriage believing it will bring completion, but it becomes your worst decision. It drains your vitality, your freedom, and your purpose.

If you are a man, you lose your power, your life force, your ojas, and the very essence that fuels your purpose on Earth. Once you are trapped in the clutches of social and family expectations, you stop living your dream. You stop living your vision. You start living the dreams of others — becoming a provider for their desires while your own soul dries up.

Look around and bring one person from your life — someone you truly consider exemplary, who has lived the best, healthiest, most fulfilling life. You will find none. Because no one in this society is truly healthy.

The brain of humanity has become permanently damaged — intoxicated by alcohol, smoking, and animal-based foods. Everyone is running after money, fame, and attention. Nobody has attention retained within themselves. Everyone is scattering it outward — unaware that attention is the currency of consciousness.

And what happens when this attention is constantly stolen by the world? The mind deteriorates, the body falls sick, and the soul becomes restless.

Look at the modern world — it is filled with diseases of the brain and nervous system: diabetes, blood pressure disorders, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, organ failure, multiple sclerosis, Alzheimer’s, dementia, bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia. These are all symptoms of the same sickness — you are not living your life.

You are living the life of your spouse, your children, your parents, your society, your culture. You are fulfilling their expectations — to have a one-bedroom flat, a car, savings, and all the possessions money can buy. Yet money cannot buy your health.

If you continue this way, you will die before you die. Your soul will perish while your body still walks. And if you do not realize this truth today, the realization will strike you soon — painfully and inevitably.

You were not born to live someone else’s life.

The Prison of Work

Another great mistake is to engage in a job or business decided by others — work that does not align with your true calling. You follow the tradition of fulfilling other people’s dreams, even when your soul hates it. You wake up every morning dreading the day, yet you still go — from 9 to 5 or even 9 to 8 — spending sixteen to twenty hours outside, away from yourself, away from life.

Life was not given to you to be wasted like this.

You have twenty-four hours. Eight hours must go into rest and sleep. Another eight must go into living your life consciously — taking care of your body, eating well, breathing deeply, staying in rhythm with the flow of life. Only the remaining eight should go into work.

And even that work must not be slavery. It should be creative expression. It should arise from joy, not compulsion.

That is why I created The Phoenix Project. Through this project, we repair, heal, and transform your brain and nervous system. We teach those who have forgotten how to live the instinctive, primal functions of life.

Those who join The Phoenix Project emerge as phoenixes — beings reborn from the ashes of their old conditioning. For the last ten years, I have made many students into phoenixes. And I now say officially — if you want to transform your life, you must work on yourself. There is no other way.

There is no other way to heal from chronic diseases or mental disorders. Because the real disease is not in your body — it is in your disconnected brain, in your scattered attention, in your unconscious living.

The Misuse of Attention

Your attention — the most valuable currency in the universe — is being distributed everywhere. On social media, in addictions, in endless conversations, and in fulfilling the needs and demands of others.

Every time you spend your attention outward, you lose life force.

Attention is like your breath — once wasted, it does not return in the same form. And when you scatter it too much, your brain loses power. That is why you feel tired, distracted, and anxious. Your nervous system loses stability.

You cannot manifest your purpose if your attention is leaking through every crack of your consciousness.

The Karma of Unconscious Birth

The third great mistake humanity commits is bringing children into this world unconsciously. You do not know what karma that child brings, what challenges the soul carries, or whether your energy is even ready for parenting.

You create children because society tells you it completes a family. Because your wife or husband desires it. Because you believe your legacy must continue.

But after birth, there is no intimacy left between partners, no spiritual connection, no shared growth. All attention goes to maintaining the child, financing the child, worrying for the child — while your inner life dies.

If you ask me the biggest mistake your parents made — it was giving birth to you unconsciously.

And if you value your life now, you must stop repeating that karmic loop. The law of karma is precise — whatever you give, returns to you. The law of cause and effect governs everything.

Life was meant for evolution — for the development of your brain and consciousness — not for endless repetition of the same patterns. But you have wasted your life in pornography, in masturbation, in marriage, in children, in desires, in addictions. And now you wonder why you are unhappy.

You will never be happy this way. Anxiety, stress, and tension will remain constant companions until you awaken to truth.

The Rise of the Phoenix

This is just an introductory glimpse of what I do as Guru Sanju. Those who feel moved by this truth must take immediate action — guided not by fear, but by their inner GPS.

Stop being a slave. Stop being a handicapped being who cannot act on intuition.

If you are a man, start retaining your semen for at least one year. Only then will transformation begin. If you cannot do this, you are not a man yet.

Be a man by increasing your masculine energy, your life force, your inner fire. Stop being weak.

To test your current strength, hold your breath and see how long you can sustain it. If you can hold for forty seconds or more, your body and mind are healthy. But if you struggle beyond ten seconds, it means your organs are diseased, your system is weak, and you must begin your healing journey immediately.

If you are a woman, the same law applies. Stop gossiping, stop wasting time in vanity and fashion shows, and become useful to the world. Invest in your life skills.

Through The Phoenix Project, I teach both men and women life mastery — how to live consciously, build skills, and become professional wellness, fitness, and transformation coaches. My students learn directly through energetic work with me. I invest in those who are eligible to receive my transmission.

My Powers and Frequency

I am Guru Sanju. I possess multiple clair powers — clairvoyance, clairaudience, clairsentience, and clairempathy. I diagnose the inmost layers of your existence — physical, mental, emotional, and energetic — before you even speak a word.

I see everything. I know everything that blocks your evolution. And with my energy transmission, I heal, transform, and awaken.

I operate from the frequency of the universe — the Guru frequency, the flow frequency, the vibration through which transformation naturally happens.

If you are a “nice guy,” a people-pleaser trapped in the matrix, you have already made these mistakes. There is no guarantee you will ever be free — unless you consciously break the pattern.

Leaving the Matrix

You must leave the matrix. You must step away from your parents’ conditioning, from social obligations, from everything that keeps you trapped. You must begin investing in your own life — in the way you want to live.

Live independently. Earn only what is required to live happily, not to impress anyone.

The world will always make you a donkey — working day and night, forgetting your spiritual growth. That is why your brain has stopped evolving.

It is time to wake up.

Nothing extraordinary has happened in the last thousand years within the matrix. No one has become free. Humanity remains enslaved to comfort, fear, and mediocrity.

My students, however, are free — because I enlighten them. I liberate them from the clutches of the matrix and teach them how to live independently, energetically, and consciously.

When you radiate higher frequencies of the universe, your energy field itself becomes your protection. You need no one else. The energetic field I create through transmission is immensely powerful. No negative energy can pierce it.

When you walk this path with me, your entire vibrational frequency changes. You become untouchable to the darkness of the world.

The Financial Awakening

Another major mistake people commit is in their financial life. They spend endlessly, take loans, pay EMIs for things they do not need, and then complain of stress.

Stop this madness.

Become a minimalist. Pay off every liability, loan, and debt. Then invest the same energy into yourself.

You are your greatest asset — more valuable than any stock, equity, or property. When you invest in your potential, your energy multiplies your wealth. Transformation from within leads to abundance outside.

Becoming wealthy starts in the mind. But being healthy — vibrantly, radiantly healthy — is the real wealth.

Live freely. Follow your ikigai — your purpose, your reason for being. That alone brings lasting joy.

If you do not realize this truth now, one day you will — perhaps on your deathbed. But by then, it will be too late. Many souls realize their mistakes only at the point of death, when nothing can be undone. And then they must return again and again — in new lives, repeating the same karmic cycles.

The Energy Within You

Whoever you are reading these words, understand — I am not speaking to your personality. I am speaking to the energy within you.

If that energy is still alive — not yet dead under layers of conditioning — then my words will awaken it.

The energy in you is listening. The soul in you is responding. The spirit in you is still breathing.

Take a pause. Reflect. Observe your life from a detached state. See the patterns, the mistakes, the unconscious choices. Awareness alone gives you the power to transform.

If you cannot do this alone, I am here. But I work only with those who are deeply committed to their own transformation — who take practical action.

The Call to Awaken

You are not meant to be a donkey serving the dreams of others. You are meant to be a lion — free, fearless, alive.

Wake up, man. Wake up, woman. Nothing is waiting for you outside. Everything you seek is within.

This life is not for comfort. It is for consciousness.

Those who rise through awareness, through discipline, through energetic mastery — they become phoenixes. They live beyond suffering, beyond repetition, beyond karma.

Stop following the herd. Stop repeating the same mistakes. Break the chain.

Invest in your freedom. Invest in your transformation.

Your time is now.

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