I often receive questions about relationships, career, wealth, job, dating, spirituality, and energy healing. Today’s question comes from William in the UK. He writes:
“I have been working in education for 18 years. I am now at the point in my life where I want to do something different. I have tried applying for jobs in a different sector but have been unsuccessful due to the lack of experience in that field. I do have a degree, and I really don’t want to waste it. I am 46 and don’t know what to do. Any advice is appreciated.”
The Crossroads at Midlife
William’s situation is not uncommon. After spending nearly two decades in a particular field, many professionals find themselves at a crossroads. The familiar career path no longer excites them, yet stepping into a new industry seems difficult, if not impossible. Fear of wasting years of experience and education can become a heavy weight that keeps people trapped.
But this moment should not be seen as a limitation—it is an opportunity. When you reach a point in life where the old path no longer satisfies you, that is not a failure; it is your inner self, your inner GPS, signaling that it is time for change. The question is whether you will listen.
Breaking the Image of Yourself
William, you said you do not want to waste your degree or the 18 years of experience you have in education. But pause for a moment. What if the new direction opening within you does not require those things? What if the inner GPS is pointing you to something completely different—something that draws not on your past image, but on your future potential?
Many people construct a strong identity around their qualifications and career. They think: I have this degree, I have this many years of experience, so I must build on that. But sometimes, life invites you to release that image and step into something fresh. It could be a different profession, a small startup, or even a long-held hobby that begins to generate income. The point is: your past need not define your future.
Two Parallel Approaches
You have two clear options. The first is to continue applying for jobs in other sectors—office roles, field jobs, or any area where you believe your degree might still help. There is nothing wrong with this.
But the second option is far more powerful: to act on what your inner GPS is telling you. This requires paying attention to ideas and impulses that arise, then testing whether they truly come from within.
Practice: Listening to Your Inner GPS
Whenever a new career idea arises, don’t rush to evaluate it with logic alone. Instead, sit with it and notice how your body responds. Here is a step-by-step way to practice:
- Sit quietly. Choose a calm place and close your eyes.
- Breathe gently. Take a few slow breaths to settle.
- Bring the idea to mind. Imagine clearly: “What if I start my own educational service?” or “What if I move into design?”
- Scan your body. Pay attention from your throat down to your stomach. Notice the sensations.
- If you feel expansion—lightness, ease, excitement—that is your inner GPS saying yes.
- If you feel constriction—tightness, heaviness, anxiety—that is a no.
- Test small actions. Imagine taking a small first step, like talking to someone in the field. Again, check your sensations.
If the body feels alive and expansive, pursue the idea. If not, release it and try another.
Research Without Paralysis
Once you have clarity, do some basic research. Meet people who have taken the path you are considering. But don’t fall into the trap of endless analysis. Too much research creates paralysis. Gather only what you need to begin, and then take action.
Remember: mistakes are part of the journey. Your first attempt may fail, but that failure may teach you the skills to succeed in your second attempt. Every step forward transforms you from an employee bound by a system into a creator of your own path.
Transforming Experience Into New Value
Even if you shift into a completely new field, your 18 years in education will not be wasted. Skills like communication, patience, leadership, and the ability to explain concepts are transferable. They can enrich any new venture you choose to pursue. The idea is not to “cash in” only on what the outside world values, but to allow your inner GPS to reveal how those experiences can take shape in a new form.
Perhaps you design an online learning platform. Perhaps you coach others in public speaking or presentation. Perhaps you pursue something entirely outside education—your degree and experience will still live in you, shaping the way you approach the new work.
Why Change Feels Urgent Now
The deeper truth is this: you want to change because the old field no longer nourishes your spirit. You may have financial security, but the heart is restless. This is not a problem to be solved; it is a calling to be followed. Suppressing it by clinging to the past only creates dissatisfaction and stagnation.
A Step Into Expansion
So here is the path forward:
- Continue applying for roles if you wish, but do not depend on them alone.
- Begin listening carefully to the signals of your inner GPS.
- Choose one expansive idea and test it with a small step—reach out, research, or experiment.
- Be willing to stumble. Even failure can be the step that leads to your true direction.
- Keep repeating this process until you feel alignment between your work and your inner being.
This is not just about changing jobs. It is about honoring the deep inner urge for transformation.
Final Word
At 46, you are not late. In fact, you are right on time. You have the maturity, the experience, and the clarity that many in their 20s and 30s do not have. You also have enough years ahead to create an entirely new chapter. All it requires is courage to trust your inner GPS, and the willingness to take small, steady steps.
If you feel unsure, you can seek career guidance. Through Inner GPS coaching, we help people identify the exact direction that matches their inner compass. We can help you see not just what your degree says, but what your spirit truly wants.
So, William, and anyone else at this crossroads: do not let fear of wasting the past hold you back. Your future is not built from your degree alone—it is built from your willingness to listen to the signals within. That is where your new career will come alive.
