The Hidden Value of Semen and the Real Cost of Fatherhood
Men, kids are costly.
They are costly because they are created from your life force—your semen. The most valuable resource you have as a man is your semen. That semen is so powerful that, if retained in your body and not used for procreation, it can lead to your total transformation. It activates the potential you—who has come to this planet for a higher purpose.
You begin to access dormant masculine power. You connect with cosmic electricity and intelligence. You begin to evolve into a higher-quality man.
But you must understand the purpose for which you are born. Only then will you understand how kids are costly—not just financially, but energetically, emotionally, spiritually.
Be practical. There is no room for emotional reasoning here.
You lose the opportunity cost of transforming yourself by giving birth to a child.
And if you are not married and haven’t had children yet, then this message has reached you at the right time. It will save you from a massive blunder.
You must understand why your semen is sacred and why releasing it to produce a child can cost you your own rebirth.
It’s not just about money.
It’s about the depletion of your time, your attention, and your life force.
And don’t say, “If our parents had thought like this, we wouldn’t be born.”
You were born unconsciously. Your parents didn’t create a miracle. You haven’t done something extraordinary by being born.
But now you have a chance to live consciously. To stop repeating the unconscious cycle of birth and death.
To not become a man of the matrix.
The Matrix Trap of Marriage, Kids, and Semen Loss
You do not know how harmful it is to release semen.
If 99.99% of the world is doing it unconsciously, that doesn’t mean you must follow the herd.
Most people are ignorant—driven by lust, fear, and compulsion. That’s why they are stuck in the birth-death matrix cycle. You too were caught in it in your past births. But if you are waking up in this life, now is the time to act.
Even if you have already had children, you still have a chance.
Retain your semen now. Watch your brain cells rejuvenate. Watch your energy levels rise. Watch your productivity increase. You shift from consumer to creator.
Your brain was meant to reach 100% capacity, but you’re using just 1–2%. Why?
Because the fuel is missing.
When you lose semen, you lose life force. And when you lose life force, your children become your liability.
They demand your energy, your attention, your presence. And in the matrix life, you have none of that left for yourself.
Most men become fathers just because their wife wanted a child.
Not because they were called to fatherhood. And if she is not satisfied with one, she’ll ask for more. You become a provider of semen, not a conscious creator.
I’ve seen many men going through spiritual awakening—Kundalini rising—and they come to me saying, “My wife already has two daughters, but now she wants a son.”
What kind of nonsense is this?
Kundalini wants your energy.
Cosmic intelligence wants you to evolve.
But you are stuck in the clutches of lust and family obligations.
The Tantric Path to Masculine Power
You must retain your semen.
You can still have sex—but learn the tantric way. Retain your semen during intimacy. Engage consciously. Rise fundamentally.
When you retain semen:
- Your dopamine increases.
- Your testosterone levels rise.
- Your energy expands.
Try it.
Start with one week. Then two. Then three. Then four. Complete 100 days—and you will become a new man.
You will glow.
Your attention span will grow.
You will become adventurous, practical, efficient. You’ll move beyond stuck jobs and lifeless businesses.
But when you are drained—because your life force was used to produce children—you stay trapped.
From morning to night, you serve the same matrix loop.
Your health deteriorates. Your dreams shrink. You become sexually dysfunctional. Addicted. Numb.
If you were happy, you wouldn’t need porn, alcohol, or escape.
Your marriage project? A failure.
Your kids project? A dud investment.
Had you invested in yourself, you’d have become a powerful creator—richer in every way.
But instead, you drank the poison everyone else drank—just because they did.
The Real Cost: Time, Energy, and Your Soul
Take a pen and paper and write down all the costs involved in bringing up your child for twenty years. Calculate the total amount of money, time, and attention you give to the child and what returns you are getting from it. Most likely, your kids project is a failed project.
How many hours do you spend every day fulfilling their requirements? And what is the guarantee that you will be in good health throughout your life? What if you die suddenly? Nobody knows what will happen the next moment.
You first create the burden. You remain in a toxic environment of stress and depletion. Then you die, and all your insurance, properties, and materialistic savings go to people whom you cannot see or influence after death. So the question arises—why don’t you enjoy your life while you are alive?
Marriage is a failed concept. Kids are costly in every way—financially, energetically, emotionally, spiritually. If you want a companion, choose a life partner who supports your evolution, not someone who becomes a liability in the form of wife and children.
If you want to be in a relationship, make a clear agreement that the woman will never become a liability to you. But such women are extremely rare. Most men will never find such a partner. So it is better to be alone than to make investments that yield no return.
These are junk bonds—investments in marriage and parenthood where there is no possibility of positive return. The best investment is the Self Project—investing in your own growth, your own healing, your own transformation.
That is where you will find the highest returns in life—in the form of happiness, creativity, inner peace, love, gratitude, and a direct connection to the universal forces that have the power to reshape your destiny.
Consider the larger impact as well. What is the volume of air, water, food, and earth’s energy that one child consumes in a lifetime? When you calculate these, your brain will go into panic. So before giving birth, perform the real calculation. Do not make this decision out of emotional pressure.
Women often blackmail men in the name of having a child. They don’t truly understand what a man goes through to raise one. Most women are conditioned from their mothers and society to believe that motherhood is necessary to feel complete.
But this is false conditioning.
The feminine energy in any woman does not require childbirth to be fulfilled. It is society, civilization, and the matrix that has imposed this idea. In truth, a woman who transmutes her feminine energy into higher consciousness becomes a powerful and enlightened being.
And only such a woman can truly understand the masculine path. A divine feminine energy will harmonize with your retained masculine energy. That is when a real yin-yang relationship begins—one based not on lust and lower chakra needs, but on purpose and higher evolution.
You are already complete as a man. You don’t need a child to feel fulfilled. And when two complete beings meet, they can create something far greater than a biological child. Their creation may be spiritual, artistic, intellectual, or universal in scale.
Warning Signs, Real-Life Stories, and the Call to Conscious Living
Children do not come with guarantees. You do not know what kind of karma a child carries. Some children are born autistic, handicapped, or with incurable diseases. Parents are not prepared for this. And when it happens, you blame yourself. You carry lifelong guilt and remain in low-vibration energy.
Even if your child is born physically healthy, your expectations may slowly destroy their natural self. You push them to perform, to meet your projected desires, and in doing so, you make them abnormal. You do not even know how your child is growing in school. You have no control over their environment, over what they are consuming mentally and energetically.
That is why I suggest homeschooling—only for those parents who are truly available and conscious. But if you are working all day in a job or business and you cannot dedicate yourself to the child’s upbringing, then giving birth becomes a crime. It becomes a sin.
Caretakers and maids raising your child cannot replace the role of an aware parent. Money cannot raise a child. Presence is irreplaceable. That is why kids are costly—not just in rupees or dollars, but in your life itself.
Think multiple times before deciding to give birth. Your entire life will be invested from that moment. And the people pressuring you—society, relatives, parents—they will not raise your child. They will play for a few years, then disappear. They will only return to demand updates and judge your child’s achievements.
This creates another burden: performance parenting. You begin expecting too much from your child because your energy and identity are now tied to their outcomes. And if they fall into addiction, depression, or rebellion, you are helpless.
You have very little control over the final outcomes of a child’s life. And these are not my assumptions—they are global realities. Go and examine what is happening in families all over the world.
If you give birth to avoid loneliness or to meet social expectations, you are operating from fear. Kids are costly from the lens of life force, attention, and emotional bandwidth. From the moment your child is born, your entire focus begins revolving around them.
You constantly fear for their safety, their success, their well-being. But you cannot protect them from everything. You cannot create a shield or immunity around them in this unstable world.
And you do not know what kind of suffering that soul has to go through. What if your child becomes mentally unstable due to past life trauma or current life experiences? What if their brain cannot adapt to the system?
Some children are old souls and cannot understand this modern world. Some are new souls and don’t know how to function in this dimension. You don’t know what you are bringing into this realm.
You must understand energy. Understand how birth happens. Understand that your semen is contributing not just to a child, but to the entire karmic ecosystem.
Your semen was meant for your inner transformation. This is a deeper journey—a vast ocean of energetic alchemy—where you become a completely different man.
And if your wife doesn’t understand this, she is not your true partner. If she pressures you to have a child, and cannot align with your awakened perspective, separate from her. Start a new life.
Let me share a true story.
A man married his girlfriend. They couldn’t have a biological child, so they adopted one. After twenty years of marriage, the wife filed for divorce. She was having an extramarital affair. She demanded alimony, including child-related compensation. After receiving everything, she left the child and went away with her new partner.
The man came to me suicidal. That child, who was not even born from him, became the costliest burden of his life.
If this example stirs something deep within you—if it pierces your awareness—then let that pain become your awakening.
Become conscious. Become attentive. Practice semen retention. Learn to hold your life force. Don’t lose it for a child. Don’t lose it for society. Don’t lose it for anyone else.
Value your life above all.
Do not become that poor husband. Become the version of him that rose from destruction.
Today, that same man is transformed. He is healthy. He is wealthy. He is independent. The wife is gone. The child is gone. The money is gone. But his power has returned. He is now an entrepreneur. He has built his own brand. And nobody can steal his life force anymore.
Such is the success of semen retention.
Such is the victory of the awakened man.
Such is the path of working with Guru Sanju.
Thank you.
