Background
I, Guru Sanju, received Rajashree at a point where her inner life had fractured from every direction at once. This was not a single problem. This was a convergence—childhood abuse that was never metabolized, repeated betrayals that trained her nervous system to stay alert, years of spiritual sensitivity without grounding, and finally a marital shock that crossed the body’s tolerance threshold. For a long time she survived through intelligence, discipline, devotion, and sheer will. From 2015 onward, she functioned well, lived with purpose, worked hard, and stayed connected to divinity. But unresolved trauma does not vanish with time; it waits. In March 2025, one emotional rupture activated everything that had been stored silently for decades. What followed was not madness, not weakness, not spiritual failure—but a full nervous-system overload. This discourse is my complete explanation, guidance, and stabilization path for her, and for anyone whose life collapses suddenly after trying to be strong for too long.
When everything collapses together
There are moments when life does not fall apart slowly. It collapses all at once. Body, mind, faith, marriage, identity—everything at the same time. When this happens, people look for one cause. They blame a planet, a person, a diagnosis, a demon, a curse. But collapse never has one cause. Collapse happens when too much unprocessed memory meets a sudden shock.
Rajashree did not break because of her husband. She broke because her system had been carrying unresolved trauma since childhood, without safety, without rest, without true emotional repair.
A child who grows up without protection does not stop being alert just because she grows older. The body learns early: love is unsafe, affection is conditional, closeness leads to pain. Such a person may become independent, hardworking, spiritually inclined, even successful—but the nervous system never fully relaxes.
When a shock arrives later in life, the body does not respond as a mature adult. It responds as the child who was never held.
The myth of sudden spiritual awakening
Many people misinterpret nervous-system collapse as sudden spiritual awakening. Energy surges through the body. Crying happens without reason. Sexual or orgasmic sensations arise spontaneously. Anxiety spikes. Breath becomes shallow. Restlessness takes over. The mind races.
These are not signs of enlightenment.
They are signs that the protective insulation of the nervous system has thinned.
Rajashree’s energetic field had become extremely sensitive and porous. Her system was hyper-activated. The natural buffer that allows a human being to stay grounded in their body had weakened.
This does not mean something supernatural attacked her. It means her system lost its boundary.
A boundary-less system absorbs everything—other people’s emotions, memories, fears, atmospheres, even places. That is why thinking of her husband felt like being dragged energetically. Not because he is bad, but because the body associated him with betrayal and threat.
The body does not reason. It reacts.
Why love suddenly feels unbearable
The strongest blockage I detected was behind the heart region, between the shoulder blades. This area stores grief, betrayal, suppressed rage, and unexpressed sorrow. When blocked, a person cannot feel safe in love—not with others, not even with themselves.
This creates a painful paradox. You want the relationship, yet you want to escape it. You crave closeness, yet feel suffocated by it. You feel calm at night, panicked by morning. One part of you wants to save the marriage, another part wants to run.
This is not confusion. This is trauma memory cycling through the nervous system.
When the system is overwhelmed, decision-making collapses. Any decision taken in this state will be distorted. That is why I told her clearly: do not decide now. Waiting is not weakness. Waiting is regulation.
Marriage is not only emotional—it is energetic
Marriage is not just a social or emotional bond. It is energetic. Every intimate relationship leaves imprints. This is not about morality or guilt; it is about information stored in the body.
Rajashree carried energetic imprints from previous relationships, not because she did something wrong, but because she never had the safety to release them. When she married, her system expected complete safety. When a hidden truth surfaced, the body interpreted it as another betrayal—even though the situation itself was not identical to the past.
The nervous system does not distinguish timelines. It reacts to familiar threat patterns.
That is why the energy storm intensified after March 14—not because of the eclipse, but because the system crossed its tolerance limit.
Astrology explains timing. It does not heal trauma.
Healing requires grounding.
Why doctors and astrologers could not help
Psychiatry looks at symptoms. It does not look at stored trauma in the body, energetic sensitivity, or spiritual perception. PTSD is not a label of weakness; it is a description of a system that learned survival too early.
Medication can reduce intensity. It cannot restore safety.
Astrologers describe fate. They do not stabilize the nervous system.
Rajashree did not need more explanations. She needed regulation.
The only real priority
I told her one thing again and again: forget fixing the marriage, forget the future, forget the UK, forget decisions.
Stabilize the nervous system first.
When the nervous system stabilizes, clarity returns on its own. Love decisions, career direction, spiritual connection—everything follows regulation.
This is why I did not promise instant transformation. I promised a process.
Healing does not happen through insight. It happens through repetition.
The practice that quietly saves lives
The most powerful technique I gave her was not mystical. It was long exhalation breathing.
Exhalation activates the vagus nerve. The vagus nerve tells the body: you are safe now.
The instructions are precise and must be followed exactly:
Sit or lie down comfortably.
Place one hand on the chest and one on the belly.
Do not control inhalation. Let the body inhale naturally.
Exhale slowly through the mouth, as if gently fogging a mirror.
Make the exhalation long, smooth, and continuous.
Continue exhaling until the belly moves inward and emptiness is felt.
Pause naturally. Allow the next inhale to happen by itself.
This is not a once-a-day exercise. This is a state. It must be practiced throughout the day—while walking, working, sitting, even thinking.
This single practice prevents impulsive decisions, reduces panic, grounds excess energy, and rebuilds trust in the body.
The comeback grounding technique
The second technique is used when emotions spike suddenly.
After a natural inhale, exhale fully through the mouth.
After exhalation, gently hold the breath by closing the nose.
Hold only as long as comfortable—never force.
Release and allow the body to inhale naturally again.
This resets the nervous system and stops spirals before they escalate.
Grounding the energy into the body
Every day, twice a day minimum, lie down comfortably.
Place both hands on the navel region.
Do nothing.
Allow the body to breathe naturally.
Stay for 30 minutes.
This anchors energy into the lower body instead of letting it rush upward into anxiety.
Why mornings feel unbearable
Rajashree noticed something important. Mornings were terrifying. Evenings were calmer.
This happens because energy accumulates during sleep. If it is not grounded immediately upon waking, it floods the system and triggers panic.
Grounding must happen before engaging with the world.
This alone changes the entire day.
About the husband and the future
I told her something difficult but necessary: do not fix the marriage now.
Not because it must end—but because fixing from fear always destroys more than it saves.
When the nervous system stabilizes, the truth becomes obvious without effort.
If the marriage has life, it will reveal itself gently.
If it does not, clarity will arrive without panic.
Right now, strong emotions are not truth. They are chemistry.
The deeper purpose of this phase
Rajashree carries healer potential. People who feel deeply, suffer deeply, and survive deeply often do.
But healers must first become safe inside themselves.
This phase is not punishment. It is reorganization.
If she commits to daily grounding, not emotionally but mechanically, her system will stabilize within months. Her life will not collapse. It will reorganize around health, truth, and grounded power.
Final truth
You are not broken.
You are not cursed.
You are not failing at marriage or spirituality.
You are healing a system that learned survival too early and safety too late.
Healing is not dramatic. It is repetitive, quiet, and stabilizing.
And if you do the practices, life returns—not as it was, but stronger, clearer, and finally yours.
