Kundalini Awakening, Karmic Bonds, and Instinctive Grounding

I met a student whose entire system felt blocked. His body was heavy, his mind overactive, and despite sincere spiritual effort, his life had become a tangle of exhaustion, fear, and confusion. In my energy field, one thing became absolutely clear: his suffering was not only personal. It was karmically woven with his parents’ destiny.

In this discourse, I will share what I revealed to him about karmic entanglement with family, post-awakening integration, and the exact instinctive, body-based techniques I taught him to free his brain, nervous system, and energy field. You can apply the same guidance in your own life.

Karmic Entanglement with Parents

When I read his energy, I saw a strong karmic braid between him, his mother, and his father. Each of them had their own destiny, but energetically their lives were knotted together.

I explained it to him like this:

Imagine three seeds, each meant to grow into its own tree. If you plant all three seeds in a single pot, none of them can fully flourish. They share the same soil, the same space, the same nutrients. All three remain undernourished.

This is what happens when karmic bonds between family members are too tight. If the mother suffers, the son suffers. If the father falls ill, the son’s life-force collapses. Everyone’s energy field is over-involved in everyone else’s destiny.

My purpose as a guru was not to break his relationship with his parents. It was to free the three souls from unhealthy energetic fusion so each could stand in their own field with strength, dignity, and independence.

When each energy field stands on its own:

• The son can live his full destiny.
• The parents can live their full destiny.
• They can still love each other deeply, but without suffocating each other’s life path.

This was the turning point of his Freedom Project: to untie the karmic knot, not by running away, but by shifting the center of his life from family mind to pure consciousness.

From Role to Consciousness

I told him: you have been living only as the son—the role. You forgot that before being a son, you are consciousness.

I gave him an example.

Think of a famous actor playing an auto driver in a film. On screen, he shouts, struggles, lives the life of that character. But when the film ends, he does not walk the streets as an auto driver in real life. He returns to his true identity as an actor who can play many roles.

You did the opposite. The movie ended, but you kept playing the same character.

You continued to behave, think, and suffer only as “son,” “employee,” “provider,” “good boy”—never as pure awareness. Your life became a repetition of patterns created by others’ expectations and your own fear.

My work was to bring you back to nothingness—to the space where you are not fixed in any role. When you live from that emptiness, you can play every role beautifully without being trapped by it.

The Path of Energetic Integration

In your case, awakening had already happened at a deeper level.

The old suffering had dissolved, but your brain and nervous system had not yet integrated this explosion of consciousness. This is what I called post-enlightenment sadhana—the work of aligning the physical and subtle systems with the awakened energy.

Kundalini had opened the doors:

• Your body had become an instrument of energetic downloads.
• Subtle electricity was flowing through your nervous system.
• Your mind, programmed for an ordinary human life, could not process this new voltage.

You were no longer just a man in the matrix. Something in you had already become universal. But your daily life, your house, your habits, and your nervous system were still organized as if you were just a “horse” when in truth you had become a “giraffe.”

A horse can manage in a small stable. A giraffe cannot. In the same way, an ordinary mind can live in a cluttered, narrow environment. An awakened field cannot breathe in that.

This is why your system felt frozen, overwhelmed, and sleepless. To help you, I had to work on three levels at once:

• Untying karmic bonds.
• Re-training your brain and nervous system.
• Re-structuring your daily life around instinctive, body-based activity.

Checking the Breath: Ida, Pingala, and Balance

The first technique I gave you was simple but powerful: observing the dominance of your nostrils.

I asked you to place your fingers under your nostrils, breathe naturally for a few moments, and feel:

• Is the right nostril more open?
• Is the left nostril more open?
• Or are they balanced?

If one side is around 80% and the other only 20%, your system is out of balance. When the right is strongly dominant, the mind and doing-mode are overactive. When the left is too dominant, you may feel withdrawn, meditative, and ungrounded, unable to function in daily life.

Ideally, your breath should hover around:

• 50–50, or
• 60–40, or 40–60,

without extreme dominance.

This is not just about the nose. It reflects the state of ida and pingala, sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems, and the vagus nerve. When these are balanced, you can be both awake and restful, active and calm, spiritual and functional.

This technique became both a diagnostic and a feedback tool for everything else I taught you. After each practice, you would check your nostrils again. If left and right became more balanced, you knew integration was happening.

Step One: Simple Breath Awareness

The next step was to sit comfortably with your hands resting gently and simply observe your breath for 5 to 10 minutes.

No counting.
No forcing.
No manipulating.

Just inhale and exhale while your full attention rested on the breath.

This was not “just breathing.” It was the doorway to space inside you.

By resting in breath awareness:

• Your mind’s habitual engagement with stories and worries loosened.
• Your energy stopped leaking through constant mental commentary.
• Your system prepared itself for deeper techniques.

Even in one minute, I saw your breath begin to balance. This showed how receptive you were. Practicing this consistently for 5–10 minutes at the start of your routine became essential.

Step Two: Mouth Exhalation in Segments

You were already familiar with simple mouth exhalation. Now I refined it for you.

Instead of one long exhale, I asked you to divide the exhalation into small segments, like pulses:

Exhale in short bursts, as if the full exhalation of ten units is broken into several parts. With each segment, you draw your belly further inward until the abdomen is completely squeezed.

Key points:

• Inhale naturally through the nose.
• Exhale through the mouth in small, distinct pulses.
• With each pulse, pull the belly further in.
• At the end, your abdomen should feel completely empty and drawn towards the spine.

This segmented exhalation:

• Drained stale air and stagnant prana from the lungs and gut.
• Stimulated the abdominal organs and fascia.
• Trained your nervous system to release tension instead of hoarding it.

This was not mere technique. It was a way to teach your body how to let go.

Step Three: Alternate Nostril Breathing (Anulom Vilom)

I then added classical alternate nostril breathing in a specific way, beginning from the left.

The full cycle was:

1. Close the right nostril with the thumb.
2. Inhale slowly through the left.
3. Close the left nostril.
4. Exhale slowly through the right.
5. Inhale slowly through the right.
6. Close the right.
7. Exhale slowly through the left.

This made one complete cycle.

I asked you to do this 11 to 21 times, with full presence on the breath, not mechanical counting. The purpose was to:

• Harmonize ida and pingala.
• Calm the mind without dulling it.
• Support balance between activity and rest, thinking and feeling.

Over time, this technique also helped in dissolving cobwebs of negativity and karmic residue that were sitting in your energy field as tension and constriction.

Step Four: External Kumbhak – Breath Hold After Exhalation

Next, I brought you to external breath retention—kumbhak after exhalation.

The sequence was:

• Inhale naturally.
• Exhale through the mouth completely until the belly is empty.
• At the end of exhalation, hold the breath for 3–5 seconds (or as much as feels safe).
• Let the body inhale on its own when it needs to.

This simple external breath hold:

• Reset your nervous system from panic to presence.
• Interrupted the chain of thoughts arising from fear and habit.
• Activated deeper stillness and clarity in the brain.

I told you clearly: if a thousand thoughts come in a day, you can do this a thousand times. Instead of negotiating with thoughts, you simply dissolve their momentum with the body’s own wisdom.

Step Five: Subtle Nadi Work to Increase Space

Once you had some familiarity with these practices, I introduced a more refined variation: inhaling from the left, holding briefly, exhaling from the right, then inhaling from the right, holding, exhaling from the left—this time with a very gentle, short hold at the top of the breath.

The emphasis was:

• Extremely slow breathing.
• Short, natural holds (around one second).
• Full presence on the movement of breath.

This sequence was designed to increase the space element in your field. As space expanded, karmic knots, mental cobwebs, and energetic congestion began to dissolve naturally, without struggle.

Step Six: Lying Navel Breathing and Surrender

The last step of your daily sequence was lying breathwork.

I asked you to lie down comfortably, place both hands over your navel, and for 5–10 breaths:

• Inhale so the belly expands into your hands.
• Exhale so the belly deflates away from your hands.

Your hands acted as biofeedback, helping your breath drop from the chest to the abdomen.

After around ten conscious breaths, I told you to stop controlling and simply rest, hands still on the navel area, for at least 30 minutes—especially at night before sleep and in the morning after waking.

Here, several things happened:

• The extra electricity generated by all previous practices grounded into the body.
• The brain and nervous system received a clear signal of safety and rest.
• Your system stopped living in constant freeze or hypervigilance.

If you fell asleep, that was perfectly fine. The practice was doing its work underneath.

Sharing the Technique with Parents

Because your karmic knot with your parents was so strong, I did not let this technique remain only with you. After a few days of consistent practice, I asked you to gift the same process to your mother and father.

I guided you to:

• First master the sequence yourself for at least three days.
• Then, on suitable evenings, give each of them a dedicated 30-minute slot.
• Teach your father first, then your mother, then practice yourself and sleep.

This was not just a breathing routine. It was an energetic re-planting:

• The three “seeds” were being moved into their own pots.
• Each would strengthen their own energy field.
• The fusion and unconscious emotional enmeshment would begin to loosen.

You were not disconnecting from them in love. You were helping all three of you stand tall in your own soul.

Instinctive Activities: Returning to the Body

Along with these subtle techniques, I insisted you ground yourself through instinctive activities. Your brain had been overfed with reading, thinking, and spiritual concepts. It needed to remember how to be a simple human.

I asked you to start with:

• Cleaning dishes by hand
  Using water, movement, and simple presence. This water element calmed your nervous system and released the freeze response.
• Sweeping the house with a traditional broom
  Using your whole body, bending, stretching, moving like an animal—rather than standing stiffly behind machines.
• Mopping the floor with a cloth
  Again involving your full body, extending your arms, engaging your legs, and truly feeling the contact with the ground.
• Washing clothes by hand in a squat position
  Sitting close to the earth, moving with rhythm, letting your muscles carry the energy rather than your head.

These four instinctive activities:

• Transmuted accumulated mental energy into physical movement.
• Grounded Kundalini energy through muscles, joints, and fascia.
• Taught your brain that life is not only thoughts and screens; it is body, breath, and earth.

I explained it to you in energetic language: you generated subtle electricity through awakening, and then you converted it into mechanical energy through movement. This is how you avoided overload, insomnia, and anxiety.

Decluttering and the Need for Space

Your environment mirrored your inner congestion. Piled-up objects, unnecessary things, and metal everywhere were pressing on your energy field like a tight suit on a growing body.

I asked you to begin a conscious decluttering process:

• Every day, remove at least a few items from your space.
• You could throw, donate, or sell them, but they needed to leave your field.
• If you had more energy, undertake a 7–10 day decluttering project, room by room.

I reminded you of Switzerland—the open meadows, the vast sky, the high mountains, the freshness you had once felt there.

Your consciousness, after awakening, had become like that: expansive, vast, in love with space. It could no longer live in a mental and physical room designed for a small, ordinary mind. Decluttering was not decoration. It was spiritual surgery.

Family, Masculine Energy, and Leadership from Consciousness

In your case, there was also your role as husband and father.

I explained:

• You are the yang of the house—the Shiva element, the consciousness.
• Your wife carries the yin—the nurturing, containing energy.
• Your children live in the field created by both of you.

As your consciousness rises and stabilizes, your family inevitably feels it. If you are truly rooted in presence, not ego, your wife’s energy gradually follows the higher frequency, and your children begin to experience you as a steady, safe hero—not through words, but through vibration.

Your world is not “out there.” The universe you experience is built from the energy field here—in your body, your breath, your house. When you change your field, your life reorganizes around it.

This is why I spoke of:

• Less clutter, more space.
• More indoor plants.
• A home that feels like a breathing, living organism rather than a storage unit.

You were not just chasing sleep. You were reorganizing life so that sleep could arrive naturally, as a by-product of alignment.

Living from the Unknown and Trusting the Guru Frequency

One of your biggest struggles was letting go of the known.

The known is everything the mind clings to: familiar patterns, old stories, fixed identities, the illusion of control. Awakening had already pulled you into the unknown, but your mind kept trying to drag you back into old structures.

I told you clearly: the guru is not a person. Guru is a frequency.

When you tune into this frequency inside yourself, guidance arises:

• Do this.
• Stop that.
• Rest now.
• Clear this space.
• Breathe like this.
• Call this person.
• Let that go.

If you ignore this inner instruction, the known wins and suffering continues. If you listen, step by step, you learn to live from consciousness instead of habit.

My role was to embody that frequency for you until you could recognize it inside yourself and follow it without fear.

Taking Responsibility for Your Life

The essence of this whole process was simple:

• You are no longer just a programmed human in the matrix.
• You are consciousness, awakening through a human form.
• Your brain and nervous system must now be trained for this new reality.

Through breath techniques, instinctive activities, decluttering, and new ways of relating to family, you began to reclaim leadership of your life.

I told you: when you take responsibility for your breath, your body, your environment, and your energy, you will feel that everything is in control—not because the world changes first, but because you have changed the field through which you experience the world.

This is energetic mastery in daily life.

Practice these techniques with sincerity, humility, and perseverance. Untie the karmic knots, balance your breath, ground your energy in simple human tasks, and slowly, slowly, you will discover the freedom that was always waiting for you at the center.