The Nature of the Matrix
Why you cannot be happy in the matrix.
The matrix itself is created from the energy of lack and scarcity. Matrix means that each participant in the matrix is incomplete, and there is never a point of completion through which it could be in abundance. The matrix is created from the lower energies of fear, insecurity, incompletion, lack, scarcity—where one person is never enough to fulfill all his needs, because there is always desire.
Desire higher than the needs. The ones higher than the needs to be fulfilled in future. The life in the matrix of a person is always either in the past or in the future. It is never in the present. So if everything is in the future, you can never be happy. And if you evolve from this state—where you get into abundance, you get into possibilities, you get into a happiness state—then you begin to understand why rising out of the matrix is essential.
If you are evolving and getting access to the secrets of life through which you can be complete, you are raising higher in consciousness. You are raising higher in your evolutionary journey. Then the people who are in lack, who are in scarcity, who are in lower vibrational energy, who have never invested in themselves—they will not allow you to be happy.
The Matrix Will Not Let You Stay Happy
They will not keep you happy. They will create conditions, situations in which you become unhappy again, because your happiness cannot be tolerated by these unhappy people in the matrix. The people in the matrix are none other than your family members, your spouse, your children, your friends, your colleagues, your society-created friends or community, or people on social media.
All these are components of the matrix. So if you focus on your life, if you start investing in your life, you become happy—but you cannot remain happy as long as you are in the company of these people in the matrix. That is why coming out of the matrix is the only way if you want to ensure that you become happy, you remain happy, and your happiness is intact.
Then you have to live an independent life of the instinctive man. You have to live the life of a phoenix which burns into ashes to create the new you. You have to go through the metamorphosis process of the larva to a butterfly, where you evolve from your state of unhappiness, and you get access to freedom, peace, power, trust, confidence. Your energy rises high to attract abundance.
Why Distance from the Matrix Is Necessary
If you want any tie with people in the matrix through any kind of communication, then you cannot remain happy, and you cannot share your happiness. Why? The lion lives alone. The lion cannot live in the jungle with the other animals who are lower than his strength. The other animals cannot allow the lion to live freely.
The lion can hunt in the jungle but cannot stay in the company of other animals because other animals get threatened by the very existence of the lion. The lion is independent. The lion is bold, it is strong, and the lion is independent enough to procure its own food through hunting.
The lion is not dependent on anyone for its food. And other animals depend on the prey of the lion—like hyenas, wolves, and other lower animals, foxes—to feed on the food hunted by the lion, the leftover of the lion. And that is why these lower animals are always in lack energy. Similar is the case with the people in the matrix, who are like crabs.
If you are rising high, if you are getting to the next level, these crabs will pull you down because they don’t want you to get out of the matrix.
The Prisoner’s Dilemma of the Matrix
You are like a prisoner in a jail who got the opportunity to get out of the jail, but the other jail mates want you to be in the jail because they cannot see your freedom. They cannot imagine you to be free and happy. That is why they kill you. They bully you. They dominate you. You are an odd man out in the group of donkeys.
You are a lion in the herd of sheep. You are an eagle, and you are among the crows. And the crows are never happy. The eagle soars high in the sky. The eagle is happy because the eagle is not dependent on the crows for food.
Look at the evolutionary journey of all the animals. If you go to the reptilian world, you will find that the snake is the most dangerous and poisonous because it is powerful. The cobra, at times, is not dependent on anyone. And that is why the cobra dominates in a different way. The cobra is independent. If you go to the bird world, the eagle soars high. It hunts on its own. It procures its own food. It is not dependent on anyone.
The horse goes to the meadows to graze. The dog, through civilization and human beings, is dependent to a certain extent. But even if you don’t feed a dog, the dog knows how to feed himself. That is given to the dog by the universal forces. The same with the lion. The same in the fish world.
The whale, the biggest animal. The shark, the hunter shark.
Whoever will hunt will remain powerful. That is the survival of the fittest in the world of evolution. And when you take action for your life, you become happy. The matrix is never happy with you and will never allow you to be happy. Note it down in your consciousness: you cannot remain happy in the matrix. And since you cannot remain happy in the matrix, you have to leave the matrix.
The Rules of the Matrix: Allowed to Rise, Not to Outshine
If you want to build your life, you cannot be an achiever permanently in the matrix. The rule of the matrix is like that: you’re allowed to be rich, but don’t become richer than them—whoever “them” is in your company and surroundings. Every person has their own matrix. The total matrix that you see is the mega matrix. But there are smaller matrices for each individual.
You have created your matrix, and the matrix that you have created includes the people in your family, in your surroundings, in your friends group, in your professional context, in your society—your neighbors, your friends’ friends, relatives. Everyone is your matrix. So in the matrix you can be richer, you can be rich, but you cannot be richer than them.
You can have a good car, but you should not have a better quality car or more cars than your neighbor or your relatives. You should be prosperous in life, but not better than them. And when you become a phoenix, when you evolve from that state, you find that the same people don’t like you. They ghost you. They insult you. They go away from you. They feel you are a competition to them. And then they try to kill you—they try to kill the potential you—by disliking you, by not talking to you, by making you feel like a victim, feel like a culprit. They criminalize you with lots of bullying. Team bullying happens when you start growing in life.
Your spouse, your in-laws—everyone will come to bully you. This has been the case with people, my students, who have evolved beyond their limitations. They have started focusing on their life.
When Your Light Triggers Their Shadows
Your own parents will dislike you if you go beyond their expectations. They feel you as a threat. Your very existence makes them feel their incapability. They feel that they are losers in front of you, because that is the conditioning of their mind, their ego. This is how they think. Even if you have done nothing to them, they will still feel that they are losers and you are actually dominating them with your positivity.
And which is true also. When you are focusing on your life, you are growing higher. You are evolving and becoming happier. You radiate with a different kind of energy. You become charismatic. Your energy field is thick, and your energy field is radiating with high electromagnetic waves. That radiates in the environment, and that shows up with your positive attitude towards life.
But these people—these are sick people. Your own parents, your spouse, your children—these are sick. They want you not to perform. If you have children and you have grown with them in a condition in which you were not brave enough, you were always a coward, and suddenly if you transform, the same children will bully you: that you are not their father.
Their mother is better than you—who is keeping them limited, who is giving them the freedom to be unconscious. The father who disciplines himself makes his children disciplined. And when you know the importance of discipline, when you start retaining your semen, you get access to the high quality of cosmic electricity flowing in you.
You get access to the universal intelligence that starts working in you. And when you know that you have got the nectar, you want to share it with the people around you. When you know the importance of saving, you start teaching your wife the importance of saving. But now she doesn’t need your advice. Why? Because saving is not possible for an ego—for an unconscious brat—which she has become.
How the Matrix Recruits Your Own Household
Children have lots of desires. They are also of the matrix. They are also participants in the same matrix. They go to the schools, colleges, and they see other people driven by desires, and they demand everything from you, because you are the bank account, the ATM machine, for their fulfillment of the dreams and desires. They come to you.
You are like a money-minting machine for them. But when you become minimalist, you become happy. You retain your semen. You know the importance of living life in fulfillment.
And when you start advocating these principles in your life, the same people—the very same people who were once dear to you—start hating you for being you. If you become conscious, you practice conscious eating, you practice conscious life, you are conscious about your investments to be done in the right assets—your wife is not supportive now. Your children are not supportive.
Your parents are not supportive, because if you become conscious, they get to know how unconscious they are. If you stand consciously in front of them, they become compelled either to follow that or to just throw you away—“Don’t be in front of us.”
The Eagle and the Crow: A Living Parable
When you are in nature, observe this drama between a crow and an eagle. The eagle is flying on its own, and the crow comes with its harsh caw, caw, caw, till the time the eagle goes away. And the eagle plays beautifully, soaring. It goes up in circles. It starts from here—suppose this is the level of the crow—the eagle will be hovering around this area, and then gradually, gradually, gradually, it goes up. It goes up in the sky. And this crow—caw, caw, caw—keeps on doing this.
These are the people of the matrix who keep on hitting you, who keep on commenting on you. They are the trollers in your life. These are the real trollers in your life.
Your wife—she will brainwash you with her emotional torture. Your children—they will brainwash you. They will make you feel guilty: the father has changed; the father is no more our father who used to play, who used to do unconscious activities with us. And this has been the case with many of my students—the same story.
Where you get rotten in the matrix, you lose all your potential of a creative man when you are in the matrix.
The Matrix Cannot Tolerate Your Growth
You’re never happy in the matrix, and you can never be in the matrix evolving and growing. Nobody will like you. You will be a hated man. Everyone would like to throw you out of their circle.
These people of the matrix—they lost their semen. They have no control over their sexual desire. They lost energy. They are engaged in all kinds of desires. And when someone disciplined, someone conscious, comes in front of them, they bully that person, they hate that person, they make that person feel like a criminal.
You have done some crime—and that man is you—who goes into trauma, who goes into depression. Some have committed suicide by following that, by fulfilling the expectations of the people around his life. The life in the matrix is like hell. If you are lucky, you will come out of the hell very soon—and that is not possible until and unless your focus is happiness, until and unless your focus is to get permanent happiness, to evolve beyond your limitation, to work on your weaknesses and transform them into your strengths.
Health in the Matrix: Rich Accounts, Poor Bodies
You will live the same life of the sick and decayed people—the diseased people—in the matrix. No one in the matrix is happy and healthy and wealthy. Money doesn’t mean that you are wealthy. Your bank account may be filled with lots of money, but you are not a wealthy person in the matrix. You are sad, sick.
You need treatment.
All your body parts are in diseased condition. You have all kinds of diseases. You have BP problems. You have diabetes. You have multiple organ failures. Your brain doesn’t work. This entire matrix is itself an asylum. It is the collection of all the mad people together and feeding on each other’s energy, feeding on each other’s attention, feeding on each other’s money, feeding on each other’s mutual benefits that these people keep on getting from each person.
No one is talented. No one is extraordinary. Everyone is ordinary. A herd of sheep staying together.
And fulfilling the needs and demands of each other. And nobody is equipped enough like a lion, like a phoenix. Nobody is strong. Nobody is healthy.
And the possibility of doing something is also over in this society.
Strung Like a Puppet: The Web of Attachments
It’s like too many strings attached to you, and you are pulled in different directions. You are here, and you are connected with different energy strings—your wife, your children, your relatives, your friends, your mother-in-law, your father-in-law, your mother, your father, your distant relatives, your school friends, your college friends, your colleagues, your boss, your social media influencers.
Then the legal system, the community people, then lots of politics—everything. You are connected. You cannot perform. You cannot go beyond a certain limit.
If you have the ability to grow into a different person, you cannot tap into that potential because you are unhappy.
This kind of unhappiness leads to your heart diseases. Most of the men who die today due to heart attack—the reason behind that is they have suppressed their energy, and it leads to blockages in your blood vessels.
The strokes that you get—if you survive the stroke, you are lucky. But most of the suppression in the body leads to cancer and other deadly diseases. You are suffering from multiple brain-health-related issues—undiagnosed. Let me tell you what these are.
First problem that you are unaware of is psychosis. You can suddenly break down and just forget everything and behave like a lunatic person if you don’t choose your happiness. Your memory difficulty does not work. The problems that used to happen for old people due to loss of many fluids in the brain—due to non-regeneration of cells, nerve cells—Alzheimer’s, dementia kind of condition—you are already experiencing. You forget things. Your cognitive function does not work all the time. You are not able to recall things. You are not able to take decisions. You get confused. You are in constant anxiety. You have multiple sclerosis—undiagnosed again. You have already become a bipolar with split personality.
You behave one way with the world, with your family; you behave another way with yourself; you behave another way with your parents; you behave another way with social media. You are a hero for social media. You are engaged in all kinds of false interaction and false glorification of your image in the social media world.
You don’t want to be authentic. You are hiding all the time. You want to show off that you are of a certain standard. You want to maintain that status quo. You are always showing to your children that you are happy and nothing can happen to you. You pretend you are protected; inside you are decaying and dying, but you show that you are the protector.
You are the mighty man. With all your money you think that you will be able to save your life. It is not possible if you are unhappy at the core. Nobody can make you happy, and you will never be able to fill this gap with money. Money can fulfill your needs—which is important to transact for the things that you need.
But it cannot recover your health. It cannot give you happiness. The true happiness will come only when you leave the matrix. You have schizophrenia kind of symptoms.
You are unreliable. You have imposter syndrome. You have ADHD—attention deficit hyperactivity syndrome. You cannot pay attention. You cannot pay attention to one thing at one time. At one moment, you’re all the time hyperactivated, all the time in anxiety, stress, tension. Your BP level goes up and down like this. And these are all the symptoms that I get from cases.
And that is why I am telling you empathetically about all these.
The Addiction Economy of the Matrix
If you want your life to change, you have to think about your life first. You have to rethink how you need to be permanently happy. You need to release your happy hormones regularly by working on yourself. You have to release your real dopamine and not feed on false dopamine through addictions. We are addicted to multiple things in life.
Because of your unhappiness—and the matrix people who are unhappy—they combine together to form a group of people who are sponsoring their addictions.
Check yourself if you are having any of these addictions:
- Number one addiction is the addiction to be in the matrix. If you are not in the matrix, you feel that you are losing something. You have FOMO issues.
- Number two, you eat too much of animal food—gelfood, meat, fish, or anything that is animal food that is processed in any form from animals.
- You are addicted to alcohol, beer, or any kind of beverages which take you into an unconscious state.
- You are addicted to weed. You are addicted to smoking. You are addicted to drugs.
- You are addicted to medicines.
- You are addicted to overeating.
- You are addicted to gossiping—you discuss a lot; you discuss and talk about people.
- And people live too much with other people—you are addicted to socializing in ways that numb your inner clarity.
- You are addicted to being workaholic; you are addicted to working too much.
- You are addicted to buying things—shopping; you are shopaholic. You shop a lot. Whenever you feel your happy hormone is not getting released, you shop something online or go to the shopping mall and buy something—and that happiness lasts only for a few seconds and then it is gone.
These are all the ways of the matrix. You go to places which are less organic and more stale—pubs, partying, socializing. You are addicted to socializing. Too much of celebrating festivals: every weekend, every 15 days you want to participate in some festival, buy some clothes, eat too much, spend too much. You are addicted to gifting—costly gifting to people on their occasions.
You are addicted to creating parties, creating celebration unnecessarily—your wife’s and neighbor’s events, your marriage anniversary, your wife’s birthday, your children’s birthday, your festival at home, your festival at parents’ home, your festival at this, that—and all these are addictions. And these are all ways to be unhappy. Why do people show extra happiness on festivals? Why are you not happy now?
Ask yourself why that extra laughter—group laughter—of showing off that you are happy in life, and at home you are sad, you are depressed. There is not a single person with whom you can share your feelings. You are suppressing all the time. Your brain is getting damaged. You are not even courageous enough to accept this fact—that you are unhealthy.
You need treatment. You need someone’s help.
Choosing Happiness: The Only Exit
So why are people in the matrix not happy? Because they don’t want to work on themselves. They don’t want to face the truth. They don’t want to take the plunge, to take the practical actions that are required to invest in themselves. If you want to be happy, if you want to get out of the matrix, you have to choose happiness.
You have to choose this path of happiness—and then only you will get free. Otherwise, nobody has ever become happy in the matrix, and you are one of them. You will never be happy. So give it a thought. Go inside and be with this question: Am I happy? Am I choosing happiness? And if I am choosing happiness, what action am I taking in my life?
And at that point, you will find a guru who is there for you—to take you to the unknown path of happiness which will be permanent, which will be unshakable.
Have a great day. Bye-bye. Thank you.
