This is a genuine and deeply painful problem. But before I take you into the depths of healing, I must tell you the truth: you should never have entered this marriage in the first place. Marriage, for many, becomes the worst decision of their lives. If you’re now realizing the extent of betrayal, hurt, and suffering you’ve endured through this institution, then take this message as a wake-up call. This guidance is meant for those who are ready to transform their life, not just listen passively.
Step 1: End the Source of Pain — Leave the Marriage
Your marriage has drained you. It has robbed you of all your energy — your vitality as a human, as an individual.
If you are still in the marriage, then the first and most critical solution is this: get a divorce. Separate. Immediately.
This is non-negotiable.
Unless you take this action, healing will not begin. File for divorce. If possible, go for mutual separation. Don’t wait for permission. Don’t delay it. If you’re unsure how to proceed, seek consultation. If you want to discuss your case with me, I offer powerful diagnostic consulting to assess where you stand and guide you into your next phase.
If you’re absolutely certain that this marriage is going nowhere — that the contract has no value — then leave the house. Start living like a single person now. This is the first powerful step toward reclaiming yourself.
If you don’t have the courage yet, I am here. I have the spiritual powers, the siddhis, the divine energy to remove blockages — if your destiny is aligned and the time has arrived. If it is, then delay no more.
Step 2: Start Loving Yourself — Fully, Fiercely, Unapologetically
Begin to love yourself again. Not just once — but more and more until you overflow. Expand.
You’ve been pouring your love into someone who did not deserve it. Now reclaim it all. When you start giving yourself that withheld love, true healing begins.
Start with simple acts:
- Go on a trip alone.
- Eat your favorite meal.
- Take yourself out on a solo date — coffee or dinner, just you and your heart.
- Soak in a long, luxurious bath.
Try this practice immediately after reading this:
Take a 30-minute hot water shower, followed by a 10-minute cold shower. Do this 3 to 4 times a day.
You will feel your energy shift. Your emotional burden will begin to release.
Loving yourself also means cooking tea or coffee for yourself. Make it with awareness. Pour love into every stir, into every sip. Even if you’re still staying in the same house with your spouse, start here, now.
Step 3: Withdraw All Attention from Your Spouse and Their World
This includes their relatives, their family, their children — anyone not you.
If your children are supporting your spouse and you are the one betrayed, leave them too. Withdraw your attention. That is your energy. That is your wealth. Your time. Your life.
This existence was given to you. Not to be distributed to those who drain you. Take it back. You will begin to feel the first real healing arise inside you when you stop feeding others and start fueling your own spirit.
Step 4: Specific Actions for Men and Women
For Men:
- Pack your bags. Leave.
- Stay alone. Live alone. Reconnect with yourself.
- Take a solo trip for seven days to a place you always wanted to visit.
- Enjoy your own company like a bachelor — like a free man.
- During this time, your true worth will begin to unfold.
For Women:
(A separate pathway will be detailed further, but know that actions are necessary, not waiting.)
Step 5: Reclaim Your Financial Independence
Take those bigger decisions you’ve been avoiding. If you’re still sharing finances with your spouse, ask yourself why. Is this marriage continuing only for financial convenience?
Then you are betraying your own soul.
You must become a minimalist. Withdraw your financial involvement entirely from your spouse or the toxic marriage. You only need to earn what supports your individual thriving — whether through your job, your business, or your freelancing.
If your finances are entangled in family, children, or a need to appear stable, you will remain stuck. Without this action, there is no freedom. Without freedom, no healing.
Step 6: Live as an Independent, Confident Human Being
You were born alone. You will die alone.
This relationship was karma — and you have learned the lesson.
Now evolve.
Rise beyond the pain. Reach the higher levels of consciousness, where you begin to value your life. You created this reality — and you can recreate it.
You must leave the matrix of marriage, which is nothing more than a herd system. In the matrix, people stay together for comfort, not truth. They survive through co-dependence, not self-power.
You are not here to be a sheep.
Be the lion.
Be the lioness who roars independently, lives fiercely, and hunts with pride.
Break free from those who pull you down — the crabs who fear your liberation.
Step 7: Cut Off the Benefits, Cut Off the Suffering
Do not expect to enjoy the benefits of the matrix without its suffering. If you want to escape the pain, you must abandon the perks.
You cannot expect to heal betrayal while staying in the comfort of that same marriage. Come out. Now. There is no passive way.
Breathwork won’t help if you don’t take action.
Meditation won’t free you if you don’t move your feet.
Only action will transform you.
Final Words: Your Soul Has Called Me
If you’re ready, if you’re truly suffering, then I can help.
I am Siddha Guru Sanju.
No one else can do this for you because no one else is willing to enter the dirt of your pain. I do the dirty work of rescuing people from this hell called a betrayed marriage — which is nothing short of slow suicide.
I have the power. But you must have the willingness.
You need to act now. Email my team. Get your first consultation.
If you don’t act, you are not suffering enough. That’s why I speak with intensity — because I see people on the brink of death, who have attempted suicide, who are still breathing because they are meant to meet me.
If your soul has brought you to this teaching, then honor that call.
A Final Reflection
You may be going through a spiritual awakening because of this betrayal. This marriage was never about romance — it was your karmic classroom.
Come out of it. Save your own life. And maybe, through your freedom, you’ll save others too — especially those who love you and are waiting for your transformation.
If this teaching speaks to your heart, then don’t stop here. Reach out. Work with me. Let the healing begin.
Ask yourself: Do you love yourself?
The answer to that question will unlock your next step.
Have a great day!
