Introduction: What Ghosting Really Is
Kundalini awakening and ghosting — two experiences that often intertwine in ways most people don’t understand.
So first, what is ghosting?
Ghosting means when one or more of your known people suddenly stop communicating with you — without giving you any reason. They disappear from your life, cut the connection, and leave you in silence.
Ghosting happens in many situations — friendships, work environments, family dynamics — but it is most common in marriages and relationships during the Kundalini awakening process.
Today, I will share with you:
- Why ghosting affects you so deeply during awakening
- What is actually happening on an energetic level
- How to overcome this phase by standing in your power
If you are going through ghosting right now, you will understand by the end of this discourse that you do not need to suffer anymore.
A Real Case of Marital Ghosting
Let me tell you about a real case from one of my students.
When this man was going through intense Kundalini awakening turbulence — the stage often called the Dark Night of the Soul — his wife ghosted him completely. She did not just stop talking to him; she stopped serving him food entirely.
He was bedridden for days, unable to take care of himself. And yet, she neither cooked for him nor arranged any meals from outside. Imagine that — a person you are married to, the one who vowed to be with you in sickness and health, leaving you to lie there without food.
Karma and Destiny in Relationships
Why does this happen?
This is karma. This is destiny. This is the worst kind of destiny — where you end up with a spouse who abandons you at your most vulnerable moment.
Think about it: a marriage is a mutual agreement to stand by each other through both easy and difficult times. And yet, when the difficult time comes, the person runs away from the responsibility.
The Harsh Reality of Marriage in Today’s Society
This is why I say society’s concept of marriage has failed. The institution has lost its true essence.
What remains now is just a mutual benefit contract. There are no human values left in it. Nobody truly cares. Nobody truly loves.
In this case, the man lost 20 kilograms of weight during that bedridden period.
It took him five years to recover from the trauma — five years of rebuilding his body, his mind, and his spirit.
When he eventually came to me, I helped him transform into a powerful man.
The Trauma of Being Ghosted by the Closest Person
Understand — when someone you are intimately connected with suddenly stops communicating with you, it’s not just an emotional wound. It is trauma to the brain and nervous system.
And this is not just about one spouse.
During Kundalini awakening, your frequency changes. You radiate a completely different energy. You are already struggling with your own transformation, and people who were with you purely for selfish benefits will leave — without explanation.
They vanish because they cannot stay in the energy you are now radiating.
Why People Disappear During Kundalini Awakening
Ghosting doesn’t happen only in your difficult times. It can happen throughout your entire journey toward freedom.
Why? Because your very existence becomes threatening to them.
They can’t stand in front of you. They can’t tolerate being near you.
Your higher frequency becomes a mirror to their lower frequency — and they feel it.
It is not your fault. In fact, it is their bad luck, their misfortune, their destiny, that they lose access to the higher consciousness you now embody.
The Threat of Your Purified Self
When you process Kundalini well — by purifying yourself — people will leave. They will ghost you.
Why? Because your purified self is a threat to them.
When you are radiating higher, the demons inside them — their jealousy, competition, comparison, envy — cannot survive in your presence.
Your very energy becomes like an arrow aimed at these demons. And just like no one would stand still to be struck, they move away. They ghost you.
The Energetic Analogy: Bow and Arrow
Here’s an analogy: imagine you are holding a bow and arrow.
Every time someone with lower vibrations comes into your energy field, your divine energy automatically shoots an arrow that begins to destroy their inner demons.
They don’t want that destruction to happen, because it forces them to face themselves. So they retreat. They stop calling. They stop texting. They stop showing up.
Why They Can’t Explain Their Disappearance
Even if you try to reach out — call, text, or ask for an explanation — they can’t tell you why they are avoiding you.
The truth is, they themselves don’t fully know. They just feel an intense discomfort around you, and they run from it.
This is where you must understand: something very specific and powerful is happening on an energetic level.
Kundalini as Cosmic Electricity
Kundalini energy is cosmic electricity. When it flows through your energy channels and clears your chakras — your energy vortexes — it does so at a very high frequency.
This frequency is so sharp, so piercing, that even your own brain finds it challenging to process.
It can activate your fight-flight-freeze mode and over-activate your sympathetic nervous system. That’s how intense it can be for you.
How This Energy Affects Others
Now imagine what the same high-voltage energy does to others who are not undergoing awakening.
When your Kundalini energy expands in your aura, in your electromagnetic field, anyone who enters your space is exposed to this voltage.
It can throw their nervous system straight into freeze mode. And when someone is frozen at that deep level, they cannot talk to you. They cannot face you. They simply disappear.
Kundalini as an Unseen Punisher
Instead of blaming yourself for being ghosted, or searching endlessly for what fault you may have committed, see the truth:
It is you, in your Kundalini ascension, who has unconsciously created this situation.
The same high-voltage energy that is purifying you is also punishing those who were with you for selfish or harmful reasons.
Isn’t it both funny and relieving to realize that you have, without effort, delivered a kind of energetic justice to these people?
This is dharma — the righteous act.
How Kundalini Punishes
Kundalini doesn’t only punish the lower energies inside you. She also acts upon the people in your life who hold bad intentions toward you.
They go into a kind of unknown trauma when exposed to your higher vibration. Their nervous system goes into freeze mode so strongly that they cannot speak to you or even look at you.
And they will never be able to explain why they stopped talking to you.
Why This Knowledge Is Liberation
Once you understand this, you will be freed from the heavy burden of self-blame.
When you know that Kundalini’s high-voltage electricity is capable of delivering these energetic shocks to those with wrong intentions, you will stop feeling guilty.
This awareness heals you. It removes decades of self-punishment and regret over relationships that ended in ghosting.
The Hidden Depression of the Unaware Seeker
Most people experiencing this have no idea they are going through Kundalini awakening.
During this period, you may find yourself in deep depression, feeling that your life is falling apart. When people ghost you on top of that, you naturally assume you are at fault — that you did something wrong, that you failed to meet expectations, that you should have acted differently.
But this was never in your control. You couldn’t have changed it even if you tried.
The Value of Sadhana and the Guru’s Presence
This is why the practices, the techniques, the sadhana I give my students are so important.
When you do your sadhana with the guidance of a guru — and in the presence of the guru — you begin to gain the intelligent perspective of higher consciousness.
You start to see everything from a higher, helicopter-like view, where the whole picture becomes clear.
Accessing Higher Intelligence Through Kundalini
Your Kundalini is a boon, but only if you understand her.
As she processes, you grow more intelligent and more perceptive each day.
You develop a new dimension of awareness — the ability to read people, to understand life, to receive realizations that bring truth to the surface.
Sometimes you may even feel as if you are observing your life from above, seeing the whole situation between you and another person from start to finish.
Becoming a Mirror to Others’ Truth
In this heightened state of awareness, you become a mirror.
When someone stands in front of you, your presence reflects their mistakes, their lies, their laziness, their exploitation.
They see the ugly truth about themselves and cannot bear it.
They know — even if only subconsciously — that they have been cheating you, lying to you, using you for material or emotional benefits. And so they ghost you.
The Case Study: Deception Behind the Ghosting
Returning to my student’s story — many of his so-called friends were around him only for money.
His wife leaked all personal information to her mother. The mother-in-law was the main manipulator, creating constant battles and fights at home.
The marriage began to collapse. Eventually, after this period of illness, he recovered enough to begin working with me.
Four years later, he took a dignified divorce.
The Meaning of a Dignified Divorce
By dignified, I mean this: the man had invested heavily in their shared home and in his wife’s career.
He had shifted her from a job she disliked into a creative field she loved, where she quickly rose in position — thanks to his support and guidance.
Yet despite his unconditional love, she ghosted him, squandered his money on material luxuries, and betrayed him with extramarital affairs.
The Extent of the Betrayal
While he was bedridden, she was secretly planning to run away with another man.
Imagine the trauma of being deeply invested in love and life with someone who not only abandons you but does so for another person.
And it wasn’t just her. All relatives and family members ghosted him too, leaving him completely alone.
How Students Find Me in Their Deepest Pain
It was during his search for help — desperate for someone to rescue him — that he found me.
Many of my students discover me in this way: through frequency.
In their deepest suffering, something in their vibration draws them to me, and my vibration calls them in.
I rescued him, transformed him, and made him powerful. I helped him break free from the prison of the matrix forever.
Rising as the Phoenix
Today, he is enlightened. He runs multiple powerful ventures on his own, no longer dependent on anyone.
That is the Phoenix I create — someone who rises from ashes into their highest power.
The Message Kundalini Gives Through Ghosting
Your life was given to you to live, not to remain a victim.
Once you know a scorpion is biting you, will you continue to sit with it? Once a snake bites you, will you stay by its side? No — you move away.
It is your responsibility to protect your life.
Learning to Be Independent
That man survived in the long run because he had life skills — he knew how to cook his own food — but his bedridden state made it impossible at the time.
This is why I tell you: don’t be in relationships that are not serving you.
Come out. Take the divorce. Be free. Invest in yourself. Love yourself unconditionally.
Kundalini Is Impersonal – She Will Move On If You Don’t Listen
Kundalini is impersonal. She awakens in many people to test whether they will understand her language, her intelligence, and the messages she brings to transform their life.
If you ignore her guidance, she will simply move on to someone else.
The one who listens, understands, and acts becomes free — a true power-holder.
How Power Comes Through Deep Sadhana
Power comes to those who work with a guru and engage in deep sadhana for transformation.
When you become someone who can save the lives of others, you naturally want to prevent them from suffering the way you once did.
But to do that, you must first be an example. You cannot remain a victim and expect to lead anyone else out of pain.
The Essence of This Teaching: You Cannot Remain a Victim
This is the heart of this entire message — you cannot remain a victim for life.
You must do something with your life to transform yourself into someone so powerful that you leave the people and the matrix behind, and start your own journey as the creator of your life.
Why You’re Stuck: No Drive, No Purpose
If you are still stuck, ask yourself: What is stopping me?
The truth is, you have no drive because you have no life purpose.
When you discover your life purpose, you will finally understand the importance of Kundalini and the transformation she is leading you toward.
Stop Playing the Victim – Take Action Now
Stop being the victim of your situation. Get out and get moving. Take action.
If something is not serving you, divorce it — divorce the society, the matrix, the toxic relationship.
Come out of everything that doesn’t serve you.
Be Your Own Master, Your Own King
Be your own master. Be your own king. Create an empire from your own energy — from your powerful, masculine, conscious energy.
You must raise Shiva within you. You must raise your consciousness. Only then will anything truly change.
Kundalini is always seeking to meet Shiva within you so that you become powerful. And from that powerful state, the life you live will be the best life possible.
Stop Crying Over Spilled Milk
Understand this: ghosting by other people is not the end of your life.
It is time to wake up and take action. Start doing your own thing.
If your spouse is ghosting you, if she has stopped communicating with you, then you also stop communicating.
Do not seek her attention. Do not try to force her to stay.
Redirect Your Attention to Yourself
Focus on your own life energy.
The real problem is that you do not love yourself. When you start loving yourself, you will stop seeking attention from others — and then nobody will be able to ghost you in a way that harms you.
The Only Person You Can Change
Remember, you can only change one person in this world: yourself.
All your efforts must go toward transforming yourself.
Final Call to Rise as the Phoenix
So take action. Come out of the matrix. Leave the toxic relationship. Walk away from the tantrums of the narcissistic spouse.
Become someone so powerful that nothing external can shake you. Become the Phoenix.
The teaching is complete.
This is how Kundalini uses even the pain of ghosting to push you into independence, transformation, and ultimate power.
